Sympathy for the creepy stalker guy?

I know you girls all know the guy: the one who stands in the corner, doesn't talk much, and asks kind of out of place questions around you. He tries to hit on you but in the weirdest way, he's too interested in you. I know what this guy is like because I think I am him to a lot of girls. I'm shy, not confident, ugly, and awkward, in other words, i'm completely incompetent with women. I don't mean to be weird or creepy around girls, I just don't know what to do. All I'm saying is, ladies, please don't judge guys like that so harshly. He may be insecure and have low self-esteem like me and trying to fit in. He's just trying to break into the dating seen and is behind on social skills that everyone else has mastered with the ladies. I understand that not all creepy stalker types are the kind that would post something online asking for understanding, if you get what I'm saying. All I'm saying is don't be too quick to judge. Ladies, what do you think about what I'm saying?